How They Treat Service Staff

behavior

GenRank Score

85.2

If your date is polite to you but rude, dismissive, or demanding toward the waiter, bartender, or taxi driver, that is a major red flag.

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30.2

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#5.0

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#1–#11

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☆☆☆σ=3.9

🏆Top 3 in 3/5 models

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20.1

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#6.0

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#6–#6

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Gemini 2.0 Flash #6

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13.0

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#1.0

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#1–#1

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11.2

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#20

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#8.7

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#3–#14

Consistency

☆☆☆σ=4.5

🏆Top 3 in 1/3 models

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GPT-4o-mini #3Gemini 3 Flash #9Gemini 2.5 Flash Lite #14

Networking event behaviors that make everyone avoid you permanently Social & Entertainment

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6.5

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#39

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#20.0

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#20

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#20–#20

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GPT-5.2 #20

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4.1

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#40

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#5.0

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#5–#5

🎯Top 5 in 1/1 models

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