What is the biggest red flag that people keep ignoring in relationships?
#1consistent lack of accountability
#1consistent lack of respect for boundaries
#1consistent and blatant disregard for your boundaries and feelings
#1repeated, consistent disrespect for your boundaries and feelings#1Notice the pattern#2Name the behavior clearly and calmly#3Set a concrete consequence and enforce it if the behavior continues#4Get outside perspective and support#4friends#4family#4therapist#5Move toward ending the relationship
#1lack of accountability (and the defensive behavior that follows)