| 01 | Love deeply | 41.0 |
| 02 | Create something that did not exist before | 31.5 |
| 03 | Deep friendships | 30.0 |
| 04 | Depth over Novelty | 29.0 |
| 05 | Radical Vulnerability and Deep Connection | 29.0 |
| 06 | Cultivating long-term, unconditional bonds | 29.0 |
| 07 | Having the courage to repair | 29.0 |
| 08 | Showing up during a crisis | 29.0 |
| 09 | Serve someone who cannot repay you | 27.8 |
| 10 | Take a genuine risk | 25.6 |
| 11 | Experience awe | 24.1 |
| 12 | Romantic love | 23.1 |
| 13 | Learn another way of living | 23.1 |
| 14 | Practicing solitude | 22.3 |
| 15 | Living Authentically and Defying Expectations | 22.3 |
| 16 | Contribution over Consumption | 22.3 |
| 17 | Making a major, self-directed pivot | 22.3 |
| 18 | Speaking your honest truth | 22.3 |
| 19 | Endure and overcome hardship | 22.2 |
| 20 | Develop mastery | 21.5 |
| 21 | Be fully present for ordinary life | 21.0 |
| 22 | Make peace with mortality | 20.5 |
| 23 | Family bonds | 20.3 |
| 24 | Service and "Generativity" (Building Beyond Yourself) | 19.6 |
| 25 | Mentoring and raising others | 19.6 |
| 26 | Altruism without recognition | 19.6 |
| 27 | Creating something tangible | 19.6 |
| 28 | The 80-Year-Old Test | 19.6 |
| 29 | raising children | 18.7 |
| 30 | Surviving and growing through adversity | 18.1 |