Playing "Hard to Get" (The Arrogance vs. Confidence Trap)

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34.8

An idea describing the tactic in dating of feigning disinterest to appear more desirable, often confused with genuine self-assurance.

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Biggest mistakes women make on first dates that instantly kill attraction Psychology & Behavior

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34.8

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#7.0

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#3–#14

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DeepSeek V3 0324 #3GPT-4o-mini #4GLM 4.7 #7GPT-5.2 #14